You don't do so well with marriage. I don't think you've begun to realize all there is for you to love. And I know you better than anyone & here's what I know about you: You have so much love to give! But I feel like you're all the time digging in the tomato bin, saying, "Where are the apples? Elizabeth Berg
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Are you married? I've been married for almost two years now. If you are, I'm sure you know what I am talking about when I say, "You don't do so well with marriage. I don't think you've begun to realize all there is for you to love. And I know you better than anyone & here's what I know about you: You have so much love to give! But I feel like you're all the time digging in the tomato bin, saying, "Where are the apples?" Marriage isn't about finding love, it's about being in love.

It's being in love with the idea of being married. After two years of marriage my husband has done nothing but hurt me repeatedly. He has cheated on me countless times and has failed to meet his most basic responsibilities toward me and our family.

My husband has left our children without food more than once, not only because he forgot to buy groceries but also because he was too busy spending money on stupid things he thought would make him happy.

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